Today’s author is Prince of Peace member, Ruth Hagander.
Have you ever been the only White person in an all- Black gathering? Have you ever been the “Outsider?” I had the thrill this past summer of attending a National Basketball Tournament in San Antonio, Texas. I was there to support my grandson and his teammates from Virginia. The games were held in a mammoth convention center with an arena that housed 12 courts. Numerous games, at different levels, were being simultaneously played. Ninety percent of the athletes, coaches, families, and fans were Black. My grandson’s team mates were 18-20 years old, high school graduates on their way to college. The incredible thrill for this “old White” grandmother was that I became the team’s mascot. I sat on the bench with the athletes; I was in the photos after each game, and when the team won first place after a nail- biting competition, I wore the same medal as the athletes. This was a fun and memorable experience, but more importantly, I experienced a vital lesson. As I reflect on my life, I have undoubtedly been somewhat self- righteous welcoming folks of color at church, in my home, or school. As a teacher, I have had students from numerous ethnic backgrounds. I have bi-racial grandkids, Latino nieces and nephews, a Black daughter in-law. It has come to seem natural, because this is family. But the tournament experience was different.. I was the “outsider.” The all Black team was the good will ambassador. They gave me smiles, hugs, high fives, lunch with the coach. It was a joyful experience that I delight in adding to my life’s tales.
I am reminded of this hymn:
In Christ there is no east or west
In him no south or north
But one great fellowship of love
Throughout the whole wide earth.
Gracious God, You showed me what love looks like. Remind me of the healthy, joy-filled world you intended when you spoke us into being. On this Advent journey to Bethlehem, may we discover each other’s stories and learn each other’s songs. Unlike “store bought “ gifts, Love endures. Amen.